Sometimes it is hard for young people to approach the girl to get acquainted or start a conversation. Especially difficult it is necessary if she really is pleasant because the possible refusal can be perceived as the present tragedy. Here observance of several rules is important.
Instruction
1. Do not pull, act resolutely. The longer you will wait, consider a situation and possible possible answers, the it is more difficult to decide. If the girl really is pleasant, get acquainted with her surely rather to know it better - only this way it will have an opportunity you too to fall in love.
2. Remember that all girls without exception like attention of an opposite sex, especially at teenage age. Even if it will refuse in the beginning (for example, from surprise), all the same it will be pleasant to it and, perhaps, further she will look at you already other eyes.
3. Think over in advance at least the first phrase. Do not begin with jokes or obscene jokes, and here the "standard", apparently, beginning "The girl, it is possible to get acquainted with you?" it can quite be successful. If you know the girl, for example, on school or institute long ago, address with an innocent request or a question. Consider that your question has to conduct to a further conversation, otherwise whether on a phrase "You have no handle" can do everything and will end with the answer "No". Ask better whether it will go to the dining room, and thrust in the company.
4. To get acquainted with the girl, act resolutely and safely. Girls (and not only they) love self-assured young people. However the silent modest woman a strong pressure can be frightened therefore having seen such reaction, you can reduce turns.
5. Surely smile. If there is no opportunity at once to approach, smile to it from far away, you can even wink. Having received in reply a smile or reciprocal winking, act resolutely - you have already nothing are afraid, you were obviously pleasant to it. If the answer did not follow, be not upset - it means nothing as you are not familiar yet.
6. Before starting talking to the girl, draw attention to yourself, and it is optional the address. Try to touch easily her a shoulder or, having caught up on the street, to pass several steps nearby. In cafe sit down on a chair nearby and if there is no chair – bring it. It is very important to feel comfortable and surely at the time of acquaintance.
7. Do not release attention of the girl, ask more questions and attentively listen to answers. Try to understand that it is interesting to her and what she is fond of. If you understand that she for the person, to you will be much simpler to communicate.