Situation in which the unmarried woman gives in to courtings of not free man and they begin the bright love relations, is old as the world. Enough often such relations with time lead to the fact that the mistress becomes pregnant from the married admirer. To arrive properly to the woman in such situation?
Instruction
1. Be ready that the man can break off your relations. If the child whom the woman carries under heart, desired then she has to prepare for what the father of the child will not accept in leaving and education of the son or daughter of special participation in advance mentally. In most cases the man leaves the pregnant woman or the mistress who gave birth from him to the child sooner or later, from a female holiday it turns into the second wife whose existence, in addition to everything, also it is necessary to hide from acquaintances and colleagues.
2. The pregnant woman from the married lover to the woman needs to think of how she will begin to provide the child and who will begin to help her with him in advance. Perhaps, parents or friends sometimes could remain with the baby throughout some time that the woman had an opportunity all to be in time. Hardly the married lover will be delighted with prospect day and night to rock to sleep the crying baby, and the woman should admit this sad fact as soon as possible.
3. Do not try to force the man to remain with you, using the pregnancy as an occasion for this purpose. Sometimes the woman thinks that, having become pregnant, she will manage "to attach" it to herself the lover and by that to take away him from family. It is not necessary to count and use on it pregnancy as means at all to catch darling in the individual possession. Most likely, such woman will fill up army of single mothers and will be unfortunate, as well as the unwanted it not guilty child of anything.
4. Having decided to give birth by all means to the child from this man, reconcile to the fact that most likely you should leave. How your married lover swore to you love, the child's birth out of family is a huge problem for it, and he should make the choice in such situation. Perhaps, the father of the child will not want to support you even, and you should assert the rights and the rights of the child in court. Think in advance whether you are ready to pass through all this, when the child will be born, the way back will not be.