Practically for each person the treason is a treachery, the crash of some hopes, dreams and ideals. You were together with the soulmate, everything was good, but here as a thunder from the clear sky: you learned about this fact. And the world as if I will fail. How to be farther?
1. Before to undertake something find out as far as it is information it is truthful. Perhaps, just envied your happiness and decided to spoil your relations thus?
2. If all this was confirmed, try to behave. You do not shout and do not arrange hysterics. It actions you do not solve a problem but only you aggravate a situation. The man can just leave, avoiding terrible scandal.
3. Before a conversation sit down and think, whether you should forgive your darling. Calm down as in a temper it is possible "to commit follies".
4. If you want to keep the relations, then sit down and quietly talk to darling. Talk about what induced to take such step. Perhaps it lacks something in the relations with you? Some men look for caress in hands of other woman in case the wife constantly shouts, "saws".
5. Do not consult on other people at all. Your life and you have to make the decision independently. Friends and relatives cannot feel your attitude towards the husband. Of course, they will be on your party and, perhaps, will advise to leave such changeable man.
6. Accept treason as the fact, it is necessary to try to find a way out of this situation. It already occurred and from it not to get to anywhere. If you made the decision to forgive and begin everything with a clean face, then you should not remember it at each quarrel and to stick the man.
7. And main thing: any trials at children. They should not see your tears and hear what father bad. You, perhaps, reconcile, and children will have "print" for the rest of life.
8. Having understood the reasons, try to change the relations. Perhaps it is worth bringing in them a little romantics and to be more tender to the man. You spend more time together, remember how your relations began. You speak about the love more often, you praise it. Also try to solve problems without shout and hysterics.
9. If the man wants to leave after the incident, do not hold it. Also you should not be rude, humiliate each other. Release a situation, find time for yourself, do favorite thing. And life gradually will begin to please you.