Most of children become more adult absolutely imperceptibly for the parents. And already there came the difficult teenage period and awkward age. At this particular time there is a strong wish to go to night clubs and to meet with guys. But for the parents all of you still the small child, also is very difficult to ask for leave for the night.
Instruction
1. Fear and nervousness for the child – here two main reasons for which you often listen to manuals from parents or at all you stay at home. If you try to understand that your close people of all on all for you worry, then you will be able to find right approach and to ask for leave to take a walk.
2. Explain to the parents with whom and where you will be. Your main objective is to prove to parents what with you will everything be all right and you will be in perfect security. Leave them the exact address of that place where you were going to go. So they will be quieter for you, and you without problems will be able to ask for leave.
3. Present to mother and the father of the friends and whenever possible their parents. Surely give to parents phone numbers of friends with which you are going to go for a walk.
4. Also one more of indispensable conditions – all of you time have to be in touch. Therefore in advance check a condition of the accumulator and charge the phone. If you do not answer the phone calls, then next time parents unambiguously will not release you anywhere. If the person ceases to answer calls, then bad thoughts at once begin to come to mind. Therefore the uninterrupted and continuous communication is very important condition which to you will also help to ask for leave.
5. If the family does not trust you, then they hardly where will release you. And if they see in you the reasonable adult who does not take alcohol, drugs and also does not smoke, then they completely will be sure of you. If parents trust you, then they will release you. Let them know that various nonsenses and adventures – all this not for you. Full confidence in the child is very important condition which allows parents to release it to take a walk.
6. The trust is the last condition. You always have to keep the promise. If you asked for leave to walk on condition that you will call parents each hour, means have to call each hour. Having kept trust of the relatives, you will save yourself from various problems and troubles. If you always keep these promises, then parents without any problems will release you to walk.