The girls meeting with guys long time sometimes do not appreciate the relation. Constantly something irritates them, they want new feelings and experiences. The scandals, dissatisfied statements concerning any trifles begin. As a result of steam quarrels. But sooner or later there is a question: how to ask forgiveness. And the first that comes to mind - it is SMS.
Instruction
1. You do not become persuasive and tiresome. Do not keep ringing and do not write the first minutes of a quarrel. Do not worsen situation. It will not result in success. If the guy himself already made the decision, then a large number of the arguments or people convincing him only spoil business. The guy will begin to doubt internally and can even refuse originally made decision. Prolong "silence" of week two-three. It is necessary in order that everything calmed down, and both of you ceased to test nervousness concerning a quarrel. The less you will touch the partner, rather your novel and the related negative feelings will become for him past.
2. Do not spend excess words and do not invent sob-stories. You should not write the whole memoirs to the SMS and to swear love. And in general - stop to convince the guy that you are not guilty, differently he, and the truth, will think of your serious fault. Understand, he, a skor of everything, already and itself came to understanding that a quarrel insignificant and it is worth reconciling.
3. In the SMS it is necessary to formulate accurately the relation to the existing problem. Any reproaches and complaints. Tell about the tortures and sufferings. Explain that you regret for that pain which to it was caused. Do not perceive sharply its reaction to a similar act. If it is not a torturer by the nature, then has to take pity. Understand that if he actually does not want to restore the relations, then no actions will help. And if wants – itself will show an initiative and will call.
4. Control the emotions. Do not express in the SMS sharply, do not offend the guy. Try to look at a situation eyes of your darling. Do not write ironic and negative words at all. They need to be selected carefully, otherwise you will not wait for any forgiveness. Do not try to write that it needs to change in itself, in character. It is useful to change most. The guy himself just will begin to admire how well you understand him. As a result you reconcile.