If you at some point realize that you ceased to interest your man that he is indifferent and cold with you, then you can already establish the sad fact that you managed to miss a lot of things and to lose. It occurred not today and not yesterday. But if you want to fight for the happiness in matrimonial life, then begin to act.
Instruction
1. For a start try to reject any offenses, claims and ambitions and soberly assess a situation. If there was a cooling in the relations, so you could not understand something in time and missed. If you do not agree with it and blame the husband for everything, then ahead at you, most likely, the divorce ghost loomed, and you will return the interest of the husband very much for a while - as the legal subject. But also to tear the hair, reveling in self-flagellation and self-accusations, too is not necessary. The woman humiliated and overflowed with complexes is interesting to nobody.
2. When you met the future husband and passionately wanted to marry him, you saw in him a desired object, its attractiveness, singularity, superiority before others. What happened now? Do you still love it or were disappointed in its advantages? Try to look at the husband with a look of the loving woman. Return the attention to it. Only do not think that the attention assumes only consumer services. Of course, and it is important in family, but you want that on you looked as at the woman.
3. Meeting the husband, rejoice to his emergence, embrace and you tell gentle words. Even the most stale person needs caress.
4. Do not reject the husband if he wants to approach you, about something to tell, share the experiences and thoughts. Even if you are very busy, stop and listen. Meet requirements of him, you learn to listen and understand. The beloved has to feel that if you are absent, then he lacks communication.
5. Hear and penetrate into it case, try to understand, than there lives your husband that to it interesting and show sincere interest in its affairs. It does not mean what should be talked without a stop about what you do not understand yet, or to make the husband talk, demanding his reports. If you act this way, then you will be boring for him or you will begin to irritate. Just show interest, your husband really in something is the best of all!
6. Do not cling to the husband and be not importunate, especially do not try to control.
7. Stop thinking about sex with the husband as about "debt" and "duties" - find in it pleasure, receive it and you give to the husband.
8. Critically take a detached view of yourself: as you began to look externally in what you put on as you are painted (if you are painted in general), what hairstyle at you. Did you become thickness and are uglier? Do you wear a dressing gown of your grandmother and pre-revolutionary slippers? On your head a bird's nest? Well, to whom it in general can be interesting?! Change, at last - find in yourself advantages and emphasize them. Return in yourself the woman who can be proud and show to people.
9. Forget about depressions, diseases and problems. Do not involve the husband in a routine. Gray and boring days of life with you will turn off the man's look in the party, undesirable to you.
10. Take care of the own life. Return the talents and dreams to life, do favorite thing which is interesting to you, from which your eyes shine and on a face light joy appears. When you are interesting to yourself, will see before yourself the one to whom you are interesting too.