There are people who, it seems, and not such bad, and personally to you made nothing, but communication with them extends from you all vital forces. How to distinguish such person and to minimize all contacts?
Four types of people with whom it is better not to have any communications are listed below: neither friendly, nor business, nor especially love.
Paranoid
The dirty trick in everything is maniacally mistrustful and looks for. Can blow up if someone did not recognize his opinion as the ultimate truth, and often uses not only shouts, but also fists. Constantly looks for signs of nonexistent unfaithfulness, will not disdain even shadowing the partner and "combing" of its messages. It is sure that all around only it and is discussed, and say only scurrilous things. Near such character you quickly will become irritable and uneasy, and even will get a nervous breakdown.
Signs of the paranoid:
- it is too mistrustful;
- constantly criticizes and also all teaches all;
- often turns an ordinary conversation into a monologue with a set of charges to the interlocutor;
- constantly quarrels with the administration;
- holds the ground to the last, it is sure that always and in everything it is right, does not recognize other points of view, except the even if the return is proved;
- he is pathologically jealous;
- he is excessively sensitive;
- considers fools of those whose opinion differs from its own;
- has few friends.
Emotionally unstable
Sharp differences of mood of this type can put anyone in a stupor. Can laugh at once, and in another already to damn the whole world. Constantly requires attention to the person, takes offense it is unknown on what, saves these negative emotions to splash out then everything and at once, constantly flirts irrespective of presence of the soulmate. Near such person you will be constantly ike a cat on a hot tin roof. The alarm and uncertainty will become your constant satellites, and business can sometimes reach also a despressiya.
Signs of emotionally unstable type:
- either everything, or anything recognizes;
- too emotionally reacts to all events in his life;
- all the time demands all-consuming adoration;
- the mood sharply changes from one extreme in another;
- seeks to reserve the last word always;
- falls into a stupor in a stress situation;
- can without the reason offend the friend or close;
- unreliable and changeable;
- prefers short and passionate affairs to the serious relations;
- without remorse can spoil property of the former friend or colleague.
Narcissus
To be the focus of attention, it is ready for anything: to spin intrigues, to play with feelings of other people, to lie, change, substitute. Usually does not disdain "dirty methods": schemes against fellow workers, for example. Near such person you will always feel unfortunate and uncertain, but the annoying is that to him all the same.
Signs of a narcissus:
- ego-trips at the expense of others;
- never it is guilty;
- terrible egocentric;
- it is sure that the whole world has to it;
- at all not empatichen;
- pays greatest attention to the appearance;
- likes to speak about himself, but it is irritated when it is necessary to speak about others;
- to seek to be the focus of attention always and everywhere;
- it is sure that all the best in this world – for it and seeks to receive it even if can not always afford it.
Predator
The most dangerous person, as has signs of the clinical psychopath. For him there are no laws of morals and standards of decency, for it especially intimacies do not matter friendly, related and already. Without any problem can even break the law. Skillfully manipulates people, using others weaknesses against people. Such type tries not to tell anything about itself, preferring to get information at the victim. Near such type there is a subconscious feeling of concern, alarm and danger. Alas, quite often such acquaintances come to an end very much and very badly.
Signs of a predator:
- it was judged or was in trouble with the law;
- deceives in an occasion and without;
- it is cold to others problems;
- quite often uses force, trying to obtain proximity;
- arrogant, stubborn, self-confident;
- specially tries to offend friends or family members;
- shows risky behavior (it is admissible, takes the wheel drunk and begins races on roads);
- manipulates people, using their trust against them;
- at the subconscious level you feel that something with it not so.
How to secure itself?
If from contact not to get to anywhere, try to be ready to resist to such asocial persons.
Do not give in on their provocation. Such people force events eternally. Do not give in to their pressure.
Make entries that someone pursues you: where, who, as looks, a machine number and other information. In case business takes an unsuccessful turn, it very much will help.
Talk to someone about it. Sometimes friends or family, taking a detached view, can tell more precisely whether you decide or that person and the truth not in yourself.
You speak "no", designate borders. Do not allow such people to subordinate yourself.
Check information which your new suspicious acquaintance told about himself. You are not lazy to look on the Internet, to porassprashivat friends and acquaintances, to request the recommendation from the last place of work of the slippery guy.