It is possible to be as much as necessary independent and taken place, but for parents we forever remain children. Even if there were fine relations with seniors, all the same from time to time face misunderstanding. At the same time they persistently hold the ground and impose the point of view that leads to disagreements.
Conservatism
In youth all of us are healthy and active therefore rather easily we transfer household disorders. At advanced age this stage of life seems to us time when the grass was more green, and bread is more tasty. Therefore you should not be surprised that our parents "get stuck" in memoirs of the youth. And the they become more senior, the stronger it is shown. To some extent the past begins to prevent to perceive quickly changing reality. They have an impression that children (how many it was years) do everything incorrectly, and they try to teach to live.
- Parents perceive the majority of changes reluctantly. Especially it concerns education and feeding of children. Find for mother of article, the written simple language where experts explain that it is useful for the child and that is not present. Look together at transfers of the central canals – often they cause more trust, then discuss them.
- Quite often parents do not like to address to policlinic. Preferring traditional medicine and self-treatment. To convince them it is useless, these can aggravate a situation only. Put emphasis that when takes them, you will be forced to give up all affairs and to be engaged in them. To call the ambulance, to go on drugstores, to sit at a bed. And all this because they did not ask for the help the qualified specialist in time.
- Fried potato, pies and other goodies it is possible, but sometimes. And when you begin to speak about it, parents are indignant: "Before a fir-tree – and anything!". It is necessary to convince, referring to dietitians and to give stories what leads the raised cholesterol and sugar to.
Technical backwardness
People of the senior generation do not keep up with promptly developing technologies. They fear the modern equipment and are afraid to make something is not right.something is not right.something is not right. And sometimes just do not know about any opportunities because of what can be the deceived swindlers.
- Refuse to use the dishwasher, considering that two plates can be washed also hands – do not argue. Discuss better how it was heavy to live to women without mixers, vacuum cleaners, washing machines earlier. So you will bring them to a thought that the equipment facilitates life. At the beginning help to master them an invention miracle, write detailed instructions. And you will not notice how with pleasure they everything will use.
- To save parents, acquaint them with widespread ways of fraud. Before to undertake something, let they will take for the rule to call up to you.
With age the ability of formation of new communications between neurons decreases. It leads to decrease in memory, attention, physical activity. What in turn slows down process of switching from one state to another and results in irritability, sensitivity. If it is peculiar to your parents, then behave with them frostily and consider each word.