Unfortunately, even in happy families there are quarrels. It is very unpleasant and upsets both the man, and the woman. And so there is a wish for rest, love and harmony. How to avoid a showdown or at least to minimize family quarrels?
Instruction
1. Do not nurse a grievance and you do not save irritation in yourself. Talk to darling, discuss all problems up to household trifles. Frankly tell about what disturbs you and offends. Conduct a conversation quietly and sincerely, but, sounding the of discontent, be ready also to reciprocal criticism. Often such confidential conversations help spouses to compromise.
2. Do not inflate a problem out of the blue. For example, the spouse hates big family feasts. Suggest it to visit relatives at least sometimes, or promise it some bonus on next weekends: today we go to my relatives, and tomorrow – with friends to club. The scattered socks and dirty ware – too not a reason for abuse, life is so short, simply divide household chores.
3. Do not control each other continually, each of spouses has to have a personal space. Respect hobbies and the interests of darling. Be not obsessed only with family life, find the hobby, develop and self-improve, clever and many-sided persons are always interesting and attractive. You should not spread all the cherished secrets, small secrets and a certain mysteriousness are only welcomed.
4. You" do not "act rashly" before crying out cruel words or consider to begin a quarrel to ten and deeply breathe. Try to distract from thoughts of offense and when passions in your soul a little settle, you will be able soberly to assess a situation.
5. If you are tried to be provoked to a quarrel, do not give in. Translate everything for fun and try to calm the angry half. Kind of you did not quarrel and did not take offense - at all do not offend each other, you do not become personal also strong language. Offensive words for a long time sink down in memory and destroy the family relations. Protect each other!