Conflict situations happen in each family. It is very difficult to avoid them. It is necessary to show great patience not to bring an ordinary household dispute to the real quarrel.
Instruction
1. If in your family the conflicts began to arise often, you should think. And first of all it is necessary to establish the reasons of unpleasant situations. Their understanding will help to reduce the number of disputes and quarrels. It is possible that you or someone from members of your family feels constant irritation that affects family relationship. If the nervousness reason – at work, then it is possible to discuss this situation in family. You should not transfer working troubles to family.
2. All people have a bad mood sooner or later. Sometimes we very much want to break, splash out the irritation. This normal desire. The person needs a discharge, a splash of negative energy. However you should not break on house. They should not suffer from your change of mood. It will be very good if you begin to help each other, listening and supporting. Let all members of your family know that houses they will receive understanding, but not negative emotions.
3. Learn to place priorities correctly. Health and tranquility house, than squabbles are much more important. Conflict situations take away a lot of energy, they exhaust. The irritation amplifies, and the hope for a constructive conversation becomes less and less. Often repeating quarrels can bring your family to a divorce.
4. Conflict situations will become a rarity in your family if you learn to understand each other. Very effective way to reach it is to put itself to the place of other person. Try to understand motives of acts of other family members, considering age, an occupation and work. Together think over options of solutions. In a conversation try not to be beyond a constructive conversation. It will be better if your conversation has character of dialogue, but not a monologue. Let in your family know that will surely listen to their opinion and will consider.