Visit of shop with the man – test for both. How to be engaged in shopping in a family format and not to swear?
That this action did not turn into failure and left only pleasant impressions, it is necessary to include female cunning, to show all the imagination, without forgetting about men's psychology.
First, think up a remuneration system. The man will be easier to be helped with purchases if he knows that for it it is waited by "bonuses". It can be a lunch in cafe, a visit of shop of fishing features or tools, unplanned evening with friends, visit of a sporting event, a bath and so forth.
Secondly, make the accurate plan and stipulate the sum. Men are frightened by uncertainty and throwings from the shelf to the shelf. Make together the list of purchases, having included in it something for it. A clear understanding of process and personal interest will play a role. Even, if he says that nothing is necessary to it, look that he attentively considers and buy it this thing as a gift.
Thirdly, in advance be prepared. Previously visit shop or come on the website and look after what you need then to come, try on and buy. So you keep both and his nerves.
Fourthly, you do not drive the hungry man on shops, or plan having a snack during shopping. Especially, if it lasts more than two-three hours. The hungry husband – not the best company.
Fifthly, be humane. Practically each man, getting to shop, becomes nervous and it seems to it that purchases will never end. Especially, if to this moment on TV there is very important football match. Therefore suggest the man to choose day, time and duration of shopping independently. Even, if it is not absolutely convenient to you. The world in family is more expensive.
Sixthly, if there is an opportunity to do in the course of purchases without husband – be loyal and leave him alone. Let will take a walk with the child, will lie down in front of the TV. While you will quietly make purchases, and will attract it when, for example, it is necessary to inform of bags the house or to approve the choice.
Seventhly, there are men who very difficult leave money. Understand it. Send the husband to heat the car or with any other assignment while you pay off at the checkout.
Eighthly, learn to ask and express gratitude correctly. Men badly understand hints. If you really need the help, report about it to the husband in a tender form. In every possible way emphasizing what he is a hero and to you without it well not to cope in any way. Do not forget to thank then. Then it will want to be necessary again and to please you. Whether it be joint shopping or unplanned gift.