Unfortunately, not the benevolent, comfortable situation reigns in all families. Domestic violence, alas, often is sad reality. Prior to a wedding during the romantic period of courtings, the girl blinded by love does not see shortcomings of the elect, and from all cautions of relatives and girlfriends just waves away. And then, when family everyday life already began, suddenly the veil falls down from eyes, and instead of the best in the world prince-knight the house tyrant appears.
1. Certainly, physical abuse is always disgusting and cannot be justified. Nevertheless, follow the wise rule: "Do not provoke!" It is not so difficult to understand what words and acts can anger the husband to such an extent that he will lose control over himself, having forgotten about rules of decency. Behave more cleverly and more carefully. Really there are such wives with whom and the Saint would not get on.
2. At once let know to the husband that you are ready to go on compromises, to be respectful to his requirement and to tastes, to attentively listen to its wishes, claims, but not tolerate humiliation of your advantage, especially manhandling. Try that these words were told by quiet, confident tone. It can work. Most of house tyrants, at heart – timid, diffident people. When they see fear in the opinion of members of household, it only urges forward them, and quiet confidence can confuse and puzzle.
3. If persistently does not reach the husband, and insults or a beating continue, think of a divorce. Why to you such family life? Resolutely banish silly prejudices of type: "Beats – means, loves". It is the most real nonsense. The loving man will not humiliate the wife, especially to inflict on her physical suffering. Warn the husband that one more similar case, and you will incur the declaration of avoidance of marriage in the REGISTRY OFFICE. Sometimes it can stir up properly the man, force it to get it together.
4. Surely fix traces of a beating in emergency stations and demand from the local police inspector of taking measures. Alas, in many cases from statements of the beaten wives prefer to wave away: like, we do not want to climb in family business, the falling out of lovers is the renewal of love, we will take measures, and you will pester then, crying and asking to forgive the beloved. Show persistence, achieve punishment of the hooligan.
5. Learn the addresses and contact phone numbers of the organizations helping women in advance – to the victims of domestic violence. They can be useful to you very much. Also will not prevent to consult to the qualified lawyer specializing in questions of family law.