Darling – it means happy, to most of women of a word synonyms. But how to keep love in family how to make that the husband was not tired to admire you? Each wife wants to be beloved, but also the husband wants the same not less, and in it an essence of the solution of a question.
Instruction
1. Do not demand from the husband impossible, accept him it what it is. The biggest disagreements begin when people try to change each other. Perhaps, you want him to meet your expectations of what has to be the ideal man. But he is a living person with the shortcomings and advantages. It is not so simple to accept the partner and to reconcile to the fact that he will not change, but if you make it he will be really grateful.
2. You want to be loved by the husband – you give it love. Not for nothing there is a saying: "As the call, so the echo". Very often people when spend together much time, begin to behave similarly. And if you show coldness and inattention to the partner, he does likewise. When it seems to you that the partner in relation to you behaves not absolutely as you would like, think and how you behave in a similar situation?
3. Be yourself. Your husband fell in love with you and made you the proposal because he saw in you something special, as forced his heart not to doubt the choice. Quite often happens that household efforts and daily occurrence force people to forget about themselves real. It seems that, leaving career, favourite business or hobby, you sacrifice it for the sake of family, but in fact, you sacrifice also family too. When people leave things, important for themselves, do not become interesting to themselves, further and that who loves in them this "sparkle". Do not change yourself. At the same time, do not force the husband to sacrifice something for the sake of you.
4. Care for it, show attention in trifles. It is not difficult to prepare for dinner a favourite dish of the husband at all, to send SMS in the middle of the working day or to buy it the book which he wanted to read long ago. These are small, but pleasant things which show your attitude towards him. After such manifestations of attention be not surprised, having found chocolate in a handbag or something else in this spirit, who knows what his imagination is capable of? Similar acts allow to show the feelings, without speaking about them aloud.
5. Everything, what are you doing for it – do for yourself. Care and attention which you take in relation to the husband have to be to you in joy. It is impossible to do favors and to go against itself, only to please darling. But if to him it is good from your care, then and it has to please you. Paradoxically, but disinterested care is always mutual.