The role of the father in family can be hardly overestimated. The father in family not only the supporter and the getter, he is also an example for imitation and a sample for future role model, for sons - that model to which they will aspire, and for daughters - that which they will look for. And in responsibility of the father the future of children, the father as the central figure in family has that impact on development of the child on which depends whether his children will be happy or not.
It is required to you
- - patience
- - free time
- - it is a little acting
- - good sense of humour
Instruction
1. Live the world of the child. You remember: in its world exists much less things, than in yours, but it does not mean that it is necessary to treat its world with neglect. Its values have to become your values for that time which you are with it.
2. Understand logic and a mentality of your child. Really understand, but do not pretend what was understood. You aspire to it, do not leave any question without answer because that you did not understand why and why he speaks and asks.
3. You are respectful to the child. What he less you knows does not mean at all what he sillier or does not understand because it is silly. He does not understand because you do not explain to him! Try to express with his words and values, and stock up with patience: process can be long.
4. Teach the child to respect honesty. Also use it, achieve that he will respect you for the fact that you with it are honest and communicate with it as equals. The real education is carried out not from the commander's position, and from a position equal, estimable.
5. Smile more often to the child. Regardless of complexity of your life, the child often not in forces to understand all completeness of your day, he, perhaps, sees you only three-four hours a day, and this time the smile has to appear as often as possible on your face.
6. Be credible to the child. Long and in detail discuss with him everything that interests him. Having achieved trust, will control it much more simply - he will tell everything, it is not necessary to interrogate him and to extort.
7. You spend with the children much time. From where do they still learn about the world how not from you? From the peers? From the TV and the Internet? Try to be to them as it is possible closer when you are near.
8. You call them simply more often to ask as them affairs. Your attention and your care is pleasant to them, and they simply will be glad to hear that it is interesting to you as well as that at them occurs.
9. Find that it is interesting to it - a hobby, hobby, inflation of soap bubbles - is unimportant. Do his favorite thing together with him as though for you it is the same joy, as well as for it.