Quite detailed instruction which learns to keep among strangers is offered to readers, to strike up acquaintances to any people, to be always ready to new life experience. In article it is told about some nonverbal means of communication, such as gestures, touches, arrangement of interlocutors.
It is required to you
- Own experience
- Knowledge of psychology
- Knowledge of rules of etiquette and good form
- Knowledge of nonverbal language
- Ability to make a pleasant impression
Instruction
1. Presently it is very important to be the pleasant person for all – beginning from the cleaner of the apartment and finishing the chief of firm where we work. It is unknown what circumstances can develop at any given moment of our life and what people can play in it a leading role. To be a pleasant person for different people, there are some rules which need to try to be observed everywhere and always. If you go on a meeting with the person whom you will see for the first time, remember that the first impression – the most important. It is necessary to make a good impression at once. At the first meeting try to be rather good listener, than the good speaker. Take for the rule always to be in good mood and to smile more often. It impresses favourably other people.
2. You should not underestimate nonverbal communication. During handshake try to look in the face to other person at least within 6 seconds. Handshake should not be strong. It is the best of all to support the weakened look, to smile, bend a little forward. Respect personal space of other person. Talking to the person, it is not necessary to approach him too close if it is only not your friend or the close relative. Try not to stand in the presence of the sitting people. The person with whom you want to come into contact can consider that you intend to dominate in your relations that can not be pleasant to much. Talking to other person, try not to touch the person.
3. Remember that your appearance can influence others, both in positive, and in a negative side. Try to work on the style. Pay attention as successful people use the appearance and follow an example of them. Try not to wear glasses with tinted windows. If you want to look the friendly and friendly person, wear the glasses which are not allocated on a face, and it is the best of all than a lens.
4. At last, do not forget about rules of good form. Having agreed with other person about a meeting, try not to be late. If the delay nevertheless occurred, then you have to have a good reason for this purpose. Try not to load other person the sharp judgments of any given subject.