Having appeared in the unfamiliar company you are confused and you do not know what to begin a conversation with? To ability to quickly find a common language with people, to feel it is sure of an unusual situation and to draw attention to itself it is possible to learn - and you will become the welcome guest at any party.
Instruction
1. Be in an obrazeuverennost in yourself begins with work on own reflection in a mirror. It is not obligatory to put on an evening dress or an output suit to feel attractively, however you have to look well-groomed and is tidy. Clean hair, accurate manicure, the ironed clothes — the successful image begins with trifles. In advance think over that you will put on a holiday what accessories you will pick up. Do not forget that the dress has to be not only beautiful, but also convenient. Constantly straightening folds, correcting the fallen straps and trying to delay a hem, you will hardly be able to concentrate on vacation.
2. Be estestvennynachiny communication with new acquaintances, avoid excessive sugariness and feigned goodwill. Trying "guide bridges" with people, absolutely uninteresting for you, you risk own reputation. It is easy to see insincerity in communication with the naked eye, and it pushes away. Instead of in despair to try to be beaten to the first group of people, look for really interesting interlocutors.
3. Be the privetlivyopushchenny corners of lips, eyes looking in a floor, crossed on a hand breast — unless somebody will dare to approach to get acquainted to it a beech? A smile — the best way to win over people and also - the nonverbal invitation to communication. The cheerful, optimistic person is always open for new. Be adjusted on a positive! Remember that you came to have a rest.
4. Be to the vnimatelnena forget about rules of communication. For example, you should not kill speaking, seeking to share the thoughts and reasons concerning told. Listen to the end up to the end, and it is better — ask couple of specifying questions. It is hard to find such grateful listener therefore you precisely will manage to win arrangement of the interlocutor. If your opinions did not meet, you should not turn a conversation into a loud skirmish which course all attendees will be able to watch. Respect the point of view of the opponent and his right to think differently, than you.
5. Be in good mood! Take active part in competitions, quizzes and games. It is the best way to get acquainted with other guests. Being in one team, it is much easier to pass to direct communication at once, there is no need to painfully think out a subject for a conversation. And on the end of a competition it is possible to discuss own impressions and emotions.