How to be a suitor for the hand and heart

How to be a suitor for the hand and heart

After time the romantic relations cease to satisfy both the man, and the woman. Both more often think of matrimonial life, construction of own center, long joint life. If you feel that the moment when it is time to resolve an issue of a wedding came, make the proposal of the beloved. If you do not know how it is original to ask hands and the girl's hearts, issue the offer in traditions of any given people.

Instruction

1. Usual recognition. The man invites the lady to an appointment in an intimate situation. In the middle of evening when the girl completely relaxes after several compliments and tasty dishes, the man gets up before her on one knee, stretches a box with ring to the girl and asks it to become his wife.

2. Indian tradition. Lovers agree about joint life, without asking parents. The woman leaves to the husband. In certain cases, except conspiracy of newly married, there was a ceremony of repayment of the bride: the groom paid off with money or property her parents.

3. Karelian tradition. Girls and young men gathered on a sit-round gathering for three days. Each guy was asked with what girl he wants to get acquainted closer. She was brought to him, all evening they talked only with each other. Sometimes the conversation came out in decisions on a marriage: for the morning the girl packed things and left to the husband. These "secret marriages" helped to avoid costs of feasts and magnificent festivals. In other cases agreed only about wedding time then the girl left as a deposit a ring or a shawl.

4. European tradition. The young couple never under no circumstances could remain alone. Surely there had to be someone the third: parents, relatives, servants. Therefore recognition of the young man and the answer of the girl were heard by all who were nearby. If the girl agreed, then more nobody could make her the proposal, otherwise he would be refused.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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