The woman who dreams to marry the Muslim needs to know that marriage in an Islamic way assumes absolutely special relations, sometimes unclear for representatives of other religions, and in particular Christianity. Not to be sorry about the mistake, it is necessary to understand at first what has to be the Muslim's wife, and only then decide on marriage.
1. Esteem the husband and obey him. The wife of the Muslim has to submit always if only the husband does not demand what is forbidden by the Quran. Never contradict the spouse even if he wants from you what it is very difficult for you to make. For example, the husband can order to the wife to see parents not more often than once a week, and she has to execute everything implicitly.
2. Conduct economy as it is possible better. If your work prevents you to care for the house and the spouse, the husband can demand to throw it, and you have to obey. Living in the house of parents of the husband, do not argue with the mother-in-law and carry out all her orders even if the senior relative offends you. Do not forget about position of the daughter-in-law in the Muslim house.
3. Always ask permissions of the husband, leaving the house or inviting other people to the house even if it is your parents, brothers or sisters. At the same time the absence of the husband does not matter when you intend to leave or bring someone. If the spouse did not agree, or you did not receive his answer yet, leaving the house or the invitation will be considered to come heavy offense for which the husband can punish the wife.
4. You watch yourself and always try to dress up and make up for the husband as it is possible better. At the same time you have no right to try to draw attention of other men. It means that, leaving the house, the woman has to put on on Islamic custom, hiding the body as it is possible stronger, not to sit down near the unfamiliar man and the more so not to start talking to it.
5. Farewell roughness and disrespect of the husband for you, always you speak with the spouse respectfully and obediently. The wife has to suffer if the husband shouts at her, offends and beats. According to Islamic custom, the spouse has the right to beat the wife that to teach a good lesson her. In that case you should not resist. Accept any roughness of the husband with a smile and humility to try to achieve his respect and also to fulfill the requirements of Islam.