Sometimes the relationship is built up not as there is a wish. The woman is dissatisfied, but one does not want to remain, the man strong attached her to himself. "Itself it is guilty, it is necessary to be cleverer", - girlfriends say. How to build up the relationship that they did not bore and were strong?
Instruction
1. Falling in love, some women are literally dissolved in the man. They give up work, devote themselves to family, but in several years from family wellbeing there is no trace left also. If you do not want a similar fate, remember that in any, even the most close relations, it is necessary to defend the independence.
2. There is nothing shameful that the woman lives not only family, but also own interests. To sacrifice itself – not the best tactics. But be ready that your relatives will be surprised to changes a little or maybe will even take a defensive position in you.
3. Do you want to recommence the sports lessons, but infinite whirl work - a household does not leave on anything time? Think over the schedule so that to release several leisure hours. First it will be difficult. Softly explain to the man that were tired of life, absolutely threw themselves.
4. Change image! But not because darling hints that in your clothes there are not enough sexual dresses. Wonder that is wanted by you. Long ago you dream to become fiery is more red? Why not? Go to the nearest beauty shop. Let the stylist will prompt what dresses will approach your new head of hear.
5. Think what is not enough in your relations and, having got up courage, talk about it to the man. Do not accuse yourself that the love boat just about will crash against life, and from former tenderness there is no trace left also. The main thing, you are ready to overcome obstacles together with darling, but not to pretend that they are absent.
6. Leave to the man the right to be themselves, do not try to control constantly it, being afraid that it will leave you. If you are tormented by jealousy, tell about it openly. Do not spy, humiliating it with mistrust.
7. Contrary to common opinion to be more cleverly in the relations does not mean at all to use cunning, pretend to be and to hide the feelings. Be open, you love, but remain yourself. Then no adversities will sadden your happy union.