Youth – is time for love, acquaintances and romanticism. However not all guys decide to approach the pleasant girl and to get acquainted, and then regret that they did not show courage. That and in the future not to miss the chance, listen to councils of more skilled conquerors of female hearts.
How to become courageous for acquaintance
The fact that the girl hesitates in society is perceived as due. However attribute to the guy a duty to be courageous and sure. But how to be if you do not feel in yourself determination? Fears are caused by complexes against which it is necessary to fight.
Soberly assess a situation – ideal people are not. And your difference from self-assured guys that you concentrate on the shortcomings, and they – on advantages. Write down all the merits on a leaf and to a thicket remember this list. Train the body: even if you will also not look an athlete, the sport will improve your bearing and will make stronger than a muscle. Be engaged in self-education and self-improvement – girls like not only sporty, but also clever guys.
Even if you do not feel courage and confidence, learn to make the necessary impression. You stand up straight, you look at the girl friendly, smile. The posture and gestures have to be relaxed: for this purpose it is possible to be trained in front of the mirror. Begin a conversation with rather loud voice that the girl had not to ask again.
Useful tips
To be more courageous at acquaintance to the girl, prepare several various scenarios of a conversation. You can represent a comic opinion poll, for example, on acquaintances on the street, and can just give the girl a pleasant compliment. The main thing that the praise was sincere and sounded plausibly. If you hesitate to get acquainted directly, approach the nice girl under other pretext. For example, ask the road or offer the help. And it is possible to try to start talking to the girl so as if you are already familiar. She by inertia will answer, though will doubt. And in a few minutes admit that it was only the occasion to get acquainted. And if you are rather charming, the girl for certain will want to continue communication. Having begun a conversation, you tell more about the girl, than about yourself, but if she asks – answer briefly and truthfully. To surprise your new acquaintance, she can make a surprise. For example, to buy her a beautiful flower or a small souvenir. The girl for certain will estimate this gift and your gallantry. Guys are very often constraining are afraid to approach very beautiful girls, preferring to communicate with less attractive persons. Whether it is worth acting this way? Beauties got used to attention of guys therefore they behave freely and relaxedly, and here "gray mice" can refuse because of shyness. Anyway the refusal should not become the tragedy. Any experience in acquaintances and communication is valuable to you, the main thing – be able to analyze the mistakes and not to repeat them more.