Trust – a basis of the long deep, intelligent relations. If your plans about the specific girl more than are serious, for a start it is necessary to be credible it. It is rather difficult to make it. However to make efforts if you doubt the feelings, to you it is not necessary as up to the end sincere all of you will not be able equally to be, and to lose trust as easy as shelling pears.
Instruction
1. Everything is simple. In order that she trusted you, it is necessary to be completely honest with her. Honest in words, acts, thoughts, manifestation of feelings. It is necessary that she saw you true. It what you are when you love are angry, were tired, took offense, delighted. There should not be a falseness neither in everyday life, nor during your romantic meetings. Be yourself. in love woman especially feels falseness.
2. It is necessary to recognize her. Not only beautiful, elegant and smiling, but also angry, angry, not made up. Her thoughts, reasonings, opinion – everything has to receive your attention. The main tool in achievement of this purpose – dialogue. Of course, dialogue has to be absolutely open. You remember if you ask a loaded question, it can be set also to you, and then it is necessary to answer honestly, it is impossible to dissemble. During dialogue listen to what speak to you about. If you look in the face, then do not interrupt, do not distract, try to understand implication. If there was a situation when you not absolutely understood (or did not understand at all) about what you the speech, ask better. Half-words should not be. Besides, sincere desire to help and execution promised always disarms.
3. Of course, in the relations not always peace and harmony, there are also hurricanes. During the quarrel of the girl are especially sensitive. It is better to take a neutral position: "I respect your opinion, but I see this situation in a different way". Try not to show aggressions. During the dispute listen carefully to what she speaks about. Remember that will play only the strongest arguments your advantage. The relations filled with care, tenderness and trust will become an award for the shown patience, attention and the made efforts.