Relationship throughout family life can change. It can happen from the fact that you will not be able to accept the darling it what he is, and want to change him under yourself. Such problem has rather deep roots which are that each of the parties long before the meeting with the elect already has a certain opinion on what he has to be. At the same time, having lived with the darling several years, it is very unpleasant to realize that you are not interesting to it.
Instruction
1. Everything that you will do for drawing attention of the husband, do first of all for yourself.
2. The man should not know that you fight for him. Allow it to think everything that it is necessary for it about your actions.
3. Men, as a rule, want to be hunters. Your husband has to have such feeling as though ""production"" which would seem is already caught forever, unexpectedly bolts directly from under a nose. But do not change. It is necessary stick to a certain golden mean - yes, darling, I certainly am interested in you, however I have also other important interests.
4. Be engaged in the appearance and clothes. Often in a rush of feelings of the woman are ready to open for the husband all themselves without the rest. Therefore the man begins to think that he knows the wife how ""peeled"". And time everything knows, does not wait for anything new any more. What in that case there can be passions...
5. Therefore periodically you hold small revolutions of appearance. Buy that it seemed to you just improper earlier. For example, jeans with a butterfly from beads in all bottom or a handbag with the playboy's emblem. Derive from it pleasure maximum.
6. Develop the intelligence and defend independence. For certain there is some subject or a subject which interests you, but for which you did not have enough time. Be engaged in it immediately. Can eat unread books or not watched movies. Read, you look, absorb new impressions. And discuss emotions not with the husband, and with girlfriends. To the man will be one phrase statement about your internal growth, about satisfaction of your curiosity and interest enough.
7. Escape from the house. Once a week attend some classes, acquire the subscription in fitness, the pool. At the same time your husband has to know that it is inviolable time for itself favourite. Though the earthquake though a flood - all of you will equally go to sing or to dance. And such place has to be closed from your husband. He can know where it, but no more than that.
8. Cultivate the healthy sexuality. Create at yourself a new habit - sometimes to be given to own imaginations.