To be a good wife is an art with which are not born, it is studied gradually, at times at the price of a set of the filled moral cones and injuries. Joint harmonious coexistence of two people, it and joint daily work. We have several councils which, maybe, will be useful to you.
Instruction
1. You should not be much. Even if darling already became your husband, it does not mean that now in his life, it is necessary to be present at all his affairs and acts also to you. You two adults therefore everyone already has a developed world – work, friends, hobbies and habits. The territory has to be both at it, and at you, it will be more pleasant to that to find a common ground.
2. Your house let filled with relatives and friends, but has to be YOUR house in which it is possible to have a rest from daily troubles, will relax, to feel comfort and a cosiness. In it a lot of things depend on you. Nobody demands that daily, coming after work, you rushed to a plate, began to prepare, to erase and clean up, but you have to be able to do all this and at the same time to teach it the spouse. Household chores can be done together or in turn, they should not be a heavy duty for anybody.
3. Do not hesitate to praise the husband, telling him as well as what you love it for, but also here it is necessary to know when to stop. If you criticize its shortcomings, then have to notice also advantages.
4. If you together, so the love and mutual respect has to unite you. And these feelings assume trust. Of course, from time to time it is possible to express jealousy if it is, but to constantly roll up scenes and to control it – is not necessary. On the other hand, imperceptible control will not damage, but it should not turn into a mania.
5. Never criticize his parents and do not try to quarrel with friends. Parents are all the same not chosen, and friends it can be and "will outgrow" under your management. If it did not happen, then reconcile, something connects your darling with them, respect his choice.
6. The good wife can lose separate fight, but win battle. Be not afraid to concede if it, of course, does not concern basic things. If you are right, then eventually your spouse will be convinced of it and will begin a bowl to listen to your councils.
7. And the most important, loving the husband and having devoted itself to family, do not howl to take care of the own life – the beauty, health, education – now it is your general family capital!