When the child is born, young mother has at once a set of questions of how to feed him, to dress how to walk with him, to bring up, etc. As a rule, desire to become good mother for the kid arises at any normal woman. Trust in the heart and at you everything will turn out.
Instruction
1. For the woman to be mother means to be itself. For this purpose she was created by the nature. Listen to yourself, the inner voice, trusting in instincts, and you learn to understand what is not enough for your kid. Of course, additional knowledge will never prevent. Scoop information on education, children's psychology from books and magazines, ask council mothers with experience.
2. Try to handle since the birth of the child it gently and carefully, but at the same time as equal. Feel sorry for him when he cries, embrace, talk to him. Newborn babies see, feel and hear much more, than was considered to be until recently.
3. Surround the kid with care, but give him an opportunity to develop, explore the world surrounding it. As seldom as possible you pronounce a word it "is impossible", let it belong only to the things posing hazard to life and health. When the child a little grows up, allow it to make whenever possible the choice, respect his opinion, but avoid permissiveness. Do not do for it what he can independently make, but be always ready to help him at a difficult moment.
4. Do not ignore the child's questions, sending him to the father or the grandmother. If you do not know the answer, promise to tell the kid about information interesting him a little later. But do not forget to keep a promise.
5. You do not compare the child to other children, all children develop very individually. Remember that reproaches and punishments break psychoemotional development of the child. Accept it it what it is, you love unconditional love. Do not fence off the kid from the adulthood, do everything together, together. So gradually he will gain valuable life experience. Remember that a lot of things depend on mother: taking care and love, you will be able to grow up the healthy talented person.