Sadly, if the person is not capable to be happy alone. Only happy can make happy someone another. The marriage does not solve a problem of lack of happiness. It is necessary just to learn to be happy, without looking on any circumstances.
Instruction
1. Cultivate in yourself gratitude. Happiness is impossible without feeling of gratitude. How to learn it? - Begin to notice different trifles. Create the diary of gratitude. Daily make in it entries. It is very simple. When everything in life is good, people are inclined to treat it as to something usual. If the door begins to creak, there is an irritation. But when the door did not creak whether there was about it a feeling of gratitude in heart? - Most likely, no. Therefore in life different circumstances thanks to which we are capable to see contrast between what had earlier, and a present state also meet. It is possible to cultivate in the heart gratitude even for difficulties, they teach us.
2. Fill the life with sense. You have to know for what you live. Mechanical circulation for work turns the person into the robot. But everyone is responsible for such state of mind. Wake up, stir up yourself immediately. Begin with reading good books in which there are valuable lessons of life.
3. You learn to rejoice. If you do not see to what to rejoice, you descend in an oncological clinic. Just sit there in a lobby. Nearby people, cancer patients will go. You will hear their talk, to see the bodies which are dried up by chemotherapy. When you go outside, you will be glad to the sun, wind and air. Everything is learned through contrast. Visit disabled people who are incapable themselves to serve. Do not all of you find yet, than to rejoice in life? Happens, the disabled person is happier, than the healthy person. Because happiness is a state of mind, but not bodies.