How to be ideal for the husband

How to be ideal for the husband

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Men dream of ideal wives. One draws to himself quiet family evenings at the laid table in an environment of relatives, another - stormy nights, the third - a privacy in own office. To understand that it is necessary for your man, be not afraid to talk to him.

Instruction

1. Most of all stains happen not because of unfaithfulness, a bad financial position of family, namely because of discontent with spouses with each other. Unexpressed claims collect, acquiring conjectures and guesses. The former loving people swear in the most trifling occasions, without understanding the main thing - all problems it is possible to solve if in time to talk about them. And the ideal loving wife has to have this ability - to extinguish the conflict in a germ.

2. With her wisdom it is quite simple to woman to resolve any issue without abuse and a quarrel. The patience is just necessary. Think that you - family heart. You worry about all and everything, but at the same time fight, supporting life of all organism. Therefore you should not show strong negative emotions - there can be a heart attack (that is scandal, and even a gap). Quietly and reasonably state that you want from the husband, and give him time for reflection. You do not hurry darling, the head of men is usually very busy with working questions and to think of family problems he needs time. Therefore begin to discuss everything in advance, without haste.

3. If the husband states any claims, do not react negatively at once. Think, there can be you really something do not so. Even if you do not see a mistake in the actions, transfer discussion of this question next day. Also begin a conversation with the fact that you thought, but did not understand, than darling is dissatisfied. Such attention to his words will be pleasant to it, he will surely explain that he does not suit it and will offer ways of elimination of a problem.

4. Do not talk to the man mandative tone, it not a dog. Build constructive dialogue and listen to his answers. Of course, women have ability to think quicker, but men study everything in details. You will have an ideal tandem if you respect each other to listen and consider opinion of everyone.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team

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