In the relations of the loving people there are periods of cooling of feelings and remoteness from each other. In this situation you should not undertake cardinal measures, to make scandals with addiction, to leave with offense. It is important to begin work on restoration of the former relations in time, to understand itself and a situation and to take the first step to revival of feelings.
Instruction
1. Try to understand what could influence changes what were the relations recently whether there were conflict situations. Frequent quarrels and reproaches leave a negative mark in soul and distance from the person. You could be disappointed in the elect or to leave disappointment in his heart.
2. Deal with feelings and honestly answer a question: "What it is not pleasant to me in this person?" You can write down answers: will analyze so easier a situation. After you understand claims and not contents, think what from the received list can be changed in the person and what it is necessary to reconcile to.
3. Try to remember all good that was in the relations: those moments of life when it was pleasant to be near the person. Good memories will help to revive feelings to the elect.
4. Try to call darling on straight talk which has to take place in a quiet situation in peace tone, without presentation of claims, statements and reproaches. Try to understand experiences and problems of the interlocutor. Perhaps, its distance is connected with external factors which have strong impact on a psychoemotional spirit. It can be problems at work, the conflicts with relatives, etc.
5. Take the first step to rapprochement. Perhaps, it is necessary to stay alone. It is possible to go together for the city or to other quiet place. Be fenced off temporarily from household problems and external irritants. Dare to enjoy joint communication.
6. Try to change something in yourself - it concerns both appearance, and internal state. Having come from work, be not fenced off by the computer monitor, and just sit nearby. Find time in the morning to ask a half about the forthcoming day, gently kiss before an exit and wish all kind. During the day call and tell several words about how you miss and you look forward to a meeting. Sometimes for maintenance of love there are not enough trifles in which the love and care of the person are shown.