Friends are people on whom it is always possible to count. They are necessary not only to share joy with the person, but also to support at a difficult moment. Unpleasantly and painfully happens to learn that the friend brought, betrayed. What to do in this case?
Instruction
1. Talk to mutual friends or parents about the incident reasons. Perhaps, you find out that the person who brought you envied you long ago or in general friendship took place only of you. Sometimes it is more visible to friends and parents, but not always they find it possible to interfere with the relations.
2. Do not hide from the friend that you are disappointed with his behavior. Sincerity is what cannot be missed in friendship. If you pretend that nothing occurred and silently digest offense, you will hardly manage to erase from the memory the treachery of the person for whom you hoped, and the relations former will not be any more. The sincere conversation will give a chance to you and to your companion to understand each other, and it is possible and to forgive.
3. After the friend explains behavior from the point of view, let yourself time think. Analyze the reasons which pushed the friend on the wrong act. If you cannot forgive the companion, you should not pretend to be. It is better to stop communication with this person for a while. Tell the friend what is required to you having rummaged in the relations.
4. If you cannot solve in any way, the wrong behavior of the friend in relation to you just combination of circumstances was or he tends tohe tends tohe tends to treachery, arrange check. Simulate a situation in which your companion will appear before the choice: to arrive in relation to you as the true friend or to betray you to please to the interests. Try to make everything so that the friend did not guess check, differently purity of an experiment will disappear.
5. If you see that the friend brought you not purposely and he sincerely regrets, do not harbor a grudge against him – in life anything happens, and you should not throw away friends. At the same time, if the companion defends the correctness, does not regret that he brought you, think - can be, this is not that person with whom it is worth being on friendly terms.
6. Anyway, you should not be trusted blindly the one who brought you before. If circumstances force you to rely on this person again, make secure spare option of behavior.