The guy with the girl were pleasant each other, the love story was begun. But suddenly on the horizon there was a former beloved of the young man who decided to play a role of a notorious dog in the manger: it any more not with me, let nobody will get time. She interferes with their relations, constantly calls, importunately imposes the society, whispers to the guy any mucks about his present beloved, and inspires in the girl what as if the guy still loves former, and with it keeps in contact only out of pity and call of duty.
Instruction
1. Do not pay attention to this jealous woman, that is to the ex-girlfriend of your young man at all. Behave so as if she is not on light at all. Ignore calls, SMS messages. Do not get into conversations with it, do not let in the house under any pretext. Through some time to her will bother to rend the air in vain.
2. Do not enter with the former passion a verbal sparring at all, and already especially a fight. Remember that it will only push away your young man from you.
3. A lot of things in this situation depend on the girl, that is on you. Sometimes happens so: she begins to become angry about the young man. Found, say, with whom earlier to create novels, now because of it problems and a headache. But it is a serious mistake. It is not necessary neither reproach, nor to accuse him. To the guy and so now it is psychologically heavy.
4. Support the beloved, let know that you do not accuse him that the ex-girlfriend suddenly jumped out from where as the notorious devil of a snuffbox. Assure that you do not attach any significance to her words, you do not trust her inventions, and especially you do not want to swear at it because of it. Your young man has to be sure of your feelings. He has to see in you not only will support the sexy partner, but also the loved, reliable one, the girlfriend who will always understand, will give a practical advice. Such women are really dear to men.
5. In a word, behave with worthy tranquility so that literally in everything it is unostentatious, but it is convincing to emphasize the superiority before the former passion. Then at the guy the last remnants of doubts for certain will disappear: but whether he got excited whether he hurried to stop that novel. It will become clear to it that it is better than the present girl, that is you, nobody is present. And he will especially value your relations, despite all efforts of its former.