The unrequited love can become the reason of terrible sufferings. The choice in such cases is small: or to try to win darling, or to leave him alone. The situation becomes complicated if it is about a love triangle.
Instruction
1. First of all solve whether you will fight for the beloved, or agree to reconcile to the fact that your feeling will remain undivided. At the same time it is very important to consider features of the relations of the girl with the person with whom she is in love.
2. Do not deceive yourself, be objective when you argue on the relations of your beloved with her young man. Do not convince yourself that he is unworthy her if are not sure of it. If it is about happy couple, then it is better to step aside nevertheless. If your beloved is unhappy with another, or could not win his heart yet, you have chances to achieve the desirable.
3. Having decided not to try to obtain love, have courage to keep the feelings around. If the girl cannot reciprocate to you, she will feel guilty. Besides, if before you had good, trusting relationship, then, having made a declaration of love, you can forever lose them.
4. If it is too painful to you to spend time together with the beloved, find to yourself new hobby, expand a circle of acquaintances, try to spend more often time with other people less often – with her. In certain cases it is possible also to try to find new love, but be careful, you can win the heart of the girl, without having to it feelings, and she will suffer from one-way love as you suffer.
5. Act very carefully if nevertheless you want to force the beloved to forget the young man and to reciprocate your feelings. Never in the presence of the girl you tell anything bad about her guy, but notice what she complains of that she in his behavior causes irritation and so forth. Your purpose – softly, unostentatiously to let know that you are deprived of those shortcomings which your rival has. Show those qualities which are pleasant to your beloved.
6. Try to approach darling, to become her friend. Let her confide to you the secrets, tells about the relations with other man, so you will be able to find a weak point in their relations. And the main thing – when they will quarrel, you have to manage to be near, to console, but not to try to tempt and not to speak about the love at all. Become just necessary as air, and will be much easier to subdue the girl.