However many it was told words that all age are obedient to love, all the same, for each person his situation is unique. The guy is younger than you and you are tormented with doubts whether it is necessary to maintain such relations. Public opinion orders to the girl to look for the partner is more senior than itself, but the most important in this situation are your feelings.
Instruction
1. Many psychologists are sure that in youth the people are more romantic. They did not lose idealistic outlooks on life and maximalism yet, did not gain bitter experience of disappointments. Therefore if your guy is younger than you, perhaps, the serious relations at him for the first time, and he will make thrifty use of you more. Do not try to break link with it only because he is younger than you and has no your experience. Perhaps, it just its advantage.
2. You are more senior – behave wisely and reasonably. Do not arrange it hysterics and scandals, be not jealous. All this anyway does not strengthen the relation and works especially is destructive, than more partners have an age difference.
3. Entering the relations, people change, influencing at each other. Changes for those who are younger are especially strong, with age people get the settled habits and tendencies, begin to conform more consistently to the rules, reluctantly changing the point of view. If your partner more young you probably he changes more than you. It is possible to tell that he will "grow" to reach your level. It will be simpler to you to influence him, and it means that if your characters are similar; can happen that your partner it will become valid that who is necessary to you for the long-term serious relations. It is about small habits, peculiar "grinding in" of people to each other, but not about trying to change the person.
4. Try to look good. If you are more senior, it is necessary to watch himself especially carefully. Most likely, you already catch from it energy of youth so remained very little: to register to the gym and sometimes to visit beauty shop. It is possible that, in difference from his coevals, you are able to afford to look, buy more elegantly expensive beautiful linen, perfume.
5. If acquaintances talk scandal concerning your couple, condemning you, do not listen to their opinion. People are inclined to give in to stereotypes, condemning others and without understanding that is much more important how at you with it everything develops. However if your really good friends point to you to flippant attitude you from the young man, think whether there is no truth in their words. Everything is not always smooth in couples where partners strongly differ on age, and you should not close eyes to it. You have to understand whether there are between you serious feelings.
6. It is quite possible that your partner has any doubts concerning your union too. Do not point to it that he is younger than you. On the contrary, it is better to let it know that, despite everything, for you it is very important to feel his strong male shoulder nearby. Though usually men worry on the similar relations much less.