Men's and female relation to treason variously. It is considered that the man changes owing to the physiological features. Even if the woman agrees with such point of view, for it all the same painfully to hear recognition of the husband about his treason. In such situation in a temper it is possible to make many fatal mistakes, including because of unexpectedness of the incident. Of course, it is not necessary to adjust itself on the fact that it will occur, but the nobility how to behave in such situation, it is necessary for everyone.
Instruction
1. Not to panic! When the husband admits treason, adequately it is almost impossible to assess a situation therefore it is better to keep silent in reply, than to tell the first that will come to mind. To change you change nothing any more, and to here spoil everything finally and it is possible to regret then about it easily. Try to remain as soon as possible one to weigh everything and to calm down.
2. Sort out a situation. Think why he told it. Usually on it there are only two reasons: or he wants to leave, or loves you and feels strong guilty. Cases when accidental treason of the husband came to an end with his abandoning the family to the competitor only because instead of support from the wife he heard from it a heap of mucks in the address are frequent. If the man wants to leave – to hold him is useless, it is better to release: will want to leave – will leave, despite everything, and your attempts to stop him will only approve its decision. If the husband admitted treason with the purpose to regret and to make more mistakes – him it is necessary to forgive. He already punished himself.
3. To forgive the husband. If you want to return the relations what were before recognition of the husband, he needs to be forgiven and not just to forgive, and to understand and overcome in yourself resentment. Understand that to it it is very heavy too. Remember the happiest moments of your joint life. Unless treason is worth it that to break everything? Competitors only therefore take away foreign husbands that have patience to share the man some time with other woman, do not saw it and are able to forgive.