The frequent cause of the divorce initiated by the woman — difficult character of the husband, his constants of discontent with the wife and reproaches. But your relations in marriage will be how good, depends on efforts of both spouses.
1. Try to talk to the husband quietly. Perhaps, now he has not the best period in life, for example, troubles at work or problems with health therefore he is not so much dissatisfied with the wife, how many a situation in general. Try to define the reason of his behavior, pessimistic mood, a depression. And then make efforts to return to the beloved taste to life.
2. Ask the spouse directly that does not suit him in your family life. When he reproaches you, for example, for badly ironed shirt or a tasteless dinner, explain to him that all this trifles. Ask him a specific question: "What it is not pleasant to you in me?" Tell that you want to change to the best that you do not wish to destroy the family relations, but for this purpose you need to know, than his reproaches are caused. The direct question will set the man thinking.
3. Do not dare to break, row and take offense. Under no circumstances do not point to its mistakes in reply. It will only aggravate a situation. Agree with it from time to time. Promise that next time you will make everything as he wants. However you have the right to count on respect from the husband for you and your work.
4. Show it that you in every way try to please it in everyday life. You praise yourself, for example: "Look, I gave birth to the child and could keep an ideal form that you could be proud of me" or "I ironed your suit that tomorrow at work you looked faultlessly".
5. Do not react to criticism so painfully. When you are irritated, upset, swear, give to the husband a reason to carp at you once again. Turn to his grumbling a deaf ear, do not allow it to spoil your good mood. You will prove also to yourself, and the husband what you the strong self-sufficient woman. Give yourself rest more often, throw household chores and relax.