Quite often women, especially impressionable and distinguished, can be simply crushed by roughness and straightforwardness of the spouse. Unfortunately, from the conflicts in family life nobody is insured, however it is possible to learn "to save face" in any situations.
What humiliation is...
First of all, it is necessary to understand what forces the wife to feel small. According to psychologists, sometimes spouses just communicate "on a different wave", and the man often does not even suspect that he offends the second half. Heart-to-heart talk can quite help with similar cases - it is worth explaining quietly to the husband that some of his words and actions painfully wound vanity of the wife, forcing it to suffer. The loving person is capable to treat similar problems with understanding, in the future trying to choose expressions not to offend the wife.
Even sorting out the relations, some find forces to abstain from insults. And the award for it can be considered relationship: as a result of the conflicts of the party have chance to state everything that collected, and to take experience. The main thing to learn to do without humiliations. However it happens and so that some husbands intentionally humiliate the wives. The reasons for this purpose there can be a set: troubles at work, quarrels, character troublemaking by nature, suspiciousness (when men are tormented by doubts in correctness of the choice or jealousy). The main thing in this situation is to understand whether the woman is capable to change current situation? If is not present whether then she is ready to be reconciled in the future with the similar relation? Unfortunately, to change the person very difficult if it is not wanted by him. As it is sad, but the men intentionally humiliating the beloved will hardly be able to change. Moreover, it is quite probable that the situation in the future can significantly be aggravated, and from verbal humiliations someone can pass to manhandling...
To forgive it is impossible to get divorced - where to put a comma?
If the spouse, without understanding as his behavior for the wife is humiliating, continues to behave in an unseemly way, the woman can think of a divorce. Quite often the women who are financially depending on the husband feel a bigger fear and humiliation at the thought of a divorce. Complicate adoption of the similar decision and children, especially preschool age. Mothers of kids are quite often forced to devote completely themselves to a household and education, refusing a possibility of professional realization and career development. However and in this case it is possible to find a way out. It is worth being prepared for a divorce in advance - to think over, first, where it is possible to leave with the child to keep from scandals and other troubles. Secondly, to decide on possible ways of earnings. For example, much will suit an opportunity to work remotely, from the house, combining education of the child and receiving income. Besides financial independence, work for the woman can be the real rescue: having lifted the self-assessment and having endured last humiliations, it not only will become more comfortable to feel psychologically, but also will take the first step on the way to the new relations. The woman who can provide herself and the child, according to psychologists is rather protected from the husband or the partner capable to offend and humiliate the half. Unfortunately, quite often men believe that they have some bases to behave disrespectfully in relation to the darling if she "lives off". For some reason they do not take into account that a household and "prosizhivany houses" with the child - not less tedious and nervous task, than the eight-day working day at office or change at the plant. According to some men, having replaced the wife per day and having stayed at home with the child (and sometimes - and with several children), they were forced to change the opinion, having recognized that the woman can be tired very much in a day and needs support.