Alcoholism – the real scourge and misfortune of many families. Unfortunately, the vast majority of alcoholics do not consider themselves patients and do not want to be treated. Therefore without the aid of the closest people about overcoming an addiction by the husband out of the question.
Instruction
1. It is quite natural and clear that you are overwhelmed by emotions, anger. Nevertheless, you should understand accurately: it is about a disease. The husband reached such state when it is senseless to shame him, to appeal to conscience, to remind of a debt to family, children, to threaten with a divorce. It should be helped.
2. If the husband not finally lost common sense, itself realizes malignancy of the habit, it is necessary to use the best efforts to persuade him to ask for medical care. Best of all (if finance allows) to resort to services of specialized clinic. At the same time try not to fall into a trap to the charlatans promising nearly immediate healing with 100% result. Inquire, especially at relatives of the people who passed through this clinic: how qualified was the help, what result whether it is possible to trust these experts.
3. In advance be adjusted on the fact that treatment will be long-term and complex. Doctors will need to carry out mental correction, to normalize work of all internal systems of an organism, to inspire in the patient the need for a healthy lifestyle. And approach has to be especially individual, not sample. On final disposal of alcohol addiction the whole year can leave, and even it is more. And, unfortunately, any expert will not give a 100% guarantee of success.
4. Rogda the alcoholic categorically does not agree to be treated or you have no financial opportunities for treatment, there are only two ways. The first – to deprive of the husband of access to alcohol (for example, having achieved in court recognition it it is limited capable that the salary of the husband was transferred to the wife). But it is quite risky way. The alcoholic, without having received some alcohol, it can become raised aggressive, dangerous, he will not stop before anything to get money for a bottle. Besides, the woman is just weaker physically, the husband can take away from her money by force.
5. The second way – by council and a medical prescription to give to the husband the medicines promoting removal of alcoholic intoxication and other most serious consequences of alcohol intake. As a rule, the pounded activated carbon, various forms of aspirin, vitamin C, anaprilin, glycine, plentiful warm drink well help.
6. And, certainly, think: if the husband exchanged family for alcohol whether there is a sense to continue such family life?