It is quite heavy to find a common language and to build the relations with the man who has only one authority – his mother. To please the mother, he is ready to sacrifice the personal interests and also the interests of the wife, to immediately change plans which were made not one day.
Instruction
1. Make friends with the mother-in-law. Perhaps, it is not the most easy problem as the husband's mother, most likely, will see in the beginning in you only the competitor. But if you with it constantly are in the hostile relations, the spouse eventually will support the mother-in-law. Everything can do will end with a divorce, and you hardly try to obtain it.
2. Try to understand, how exactly it is necessary to behave with the mother-in-law that she did not feel lonely also unnecessary the son. Show her that she remains beloved mother to whose councils listen.
3. Persistently bring up in it the real man. It is quite difficult task is to re-educate the adult man who got used to live by the rules dictated by mother from year to year. But nevertheless it is worth fighting for the happiness if you do not wish to solve all life all problems independently. Day by day you repeat blessed that you the weak girl for whom its protection is necessary. It is possible that in several years your suggestions will conceive positive effect.
4. Admire the spouse. As a rule, mother's sonnies are diffident men therefore you praise more often, admire the spouse, emphasize his male lines: reliability, ingenuity, skillful hands. It is even necessary to tell it when the husband not especially shines with all listed characteristics. Constantly encouraging their slightest manifestation, you stimulate it on bigger.
5. Become for the husband the second mother. If you have no desire to be engaged in re-education of the beloved spouse, it is possible just to accept it it what it is. Observe the husband and the mother-in-law from outside, pay attention that is not pleasant to the spouse in his mother. Note it to yourself and try not to make the same mistakes, as she. If you have enough energy and forces to take the dependent spouse under the aegis, to care for it, then after a while he with pleasure will run across from mother's close attention to you.