The alcoholic in family, this terrible misfortune, for the family. The given advice will help to put on a right way of the got-off spouse.
1. The wife who decided to undertake seriously a problem of the husband of the alcoholic herself has to refuse alcohol completely. Alcohol, even for solemn occasions should not be stored in the house. The spouse needs to refuse consumption of alcoholic drinks, even on holidays, or on a visit, thus, completely supporting the husband.
2. If it is necessary undertake yourself, try to look always well-groomed and attractive, become the woman near whom there cannot be a drinking husband. If the man drinks, be discharged of him, for his benefit. Remind the spouse that still you love him, but he should solve all the pressing problems most.
3. Do not allow to the house of companions on a bottle, all ways, by means of the family isolate your spouse from bad influence.
4. The woman should reconsider the relation to the spouse. To begin to struggle with an illness it is necessary in an amicable way. Do not criticize and do not humiliate the spouse, tell that you love and you believe in him, earlier he was absolutely another. Raise a self-assessment of the man.
5. Ask for the help the husband's parents. The authority of dear people will force it to feel ashamed of the behavior hardly he will want to upset the parents. The conversation with them will give more incentive and desires to stick with an addiction. As well close friends, can support the spouse, reminding what wonderful person he was as they miss former times.
6. If the given advice does not help, it is possible to resort to more effective ways. For example, when the spouse will get drunk, film him, then let will look at himself in all beauty. Threaten that you will make mailing to friends, the boss. Often such method makes sober the man's thoughts.
7. When the behavior of the drunk husband goes beyond all framework, without having trembled a hand, call the militia and send it to the sobering-up station. Visit of this unpleasant institution, will for a long time be postponed in memory and will set the man thinking seriously on the problem, to recognize its existence.
8. In critical situations, it is the best of all to get up courage and to send the spouse for treatment in a special clinic. Get support of the family that entreaties of the spouse did not soften your firmness, all what are you doing, only for his benefit and on advantage to family.