The woman liked the man. She instinctively all the essence felt that it he - that of which she dreamed. But here ill luck: her views, hints, more and more frank, do not affect it at all. The man communicates with it, is polite and gallant, but at the same time behaves so as if he does not allow even a thought of the serious relations.
Instruction
1. Calm down, get it together. Emotions and offense – bad advisers in such business. The logic and composure is necessary for you now. The unwillingness of the man to get with you the serious relations can speak several reasons. You should analyze them carefully.
2. As it is sad, you can be simply not in its taste. Try to learn about his preferences. Certainly, do not ask it such questions directly. You can bring a conversation to the necessary subject kind of accidentally. Or ask mutual friends, friends. Let's assume, you managed to learn that it does not like that type of women which you represent. For example, you the slender, vigorous brunette, and attract it phlegmatic blondes with curvy shapes. Then overcome the feelings better. Think: for the sake of love it is possible to recolour hair, but to gather extra kilos and to cardinally alter the character, temperament? It too! You will only make of yourself a laughing-stock. On light there will be enough men capable to estimate you and to fall in love.
3. Besides, it is possible that your some habits, manners, features of character are unpleasant to it, push away. If you are nice to the man, but something stops him, try to look at yourself from outside, to change to the best. Ask your relatives, friends, good acquaintances to tell frankly what in your manners, behavior, is pleasant to them and that is not pleasant. Show consideration for their opinion, without any offenses and claims, draw necessary conclusions, correct the behavior. Try to smile more often, constrain negative emotions. It is quite possible that then shortly this man will show to you apparent interest, and itself will begin to hint at the serious relations.
4. At last, he simply can be the egoist who too high opinion on the person, and looks down on you, including not more exactly himself. Such men do not cost either love, or the spent efforts. You thank the lucky stars for the fact that he did not answer your rush. Otherwise, almost for certain your novel would bring you only bitter disappointment.