Communication with darling is not absolutely smooth and equal. Sooner or later idyll in the relations comes to an end, and then before couple there is a choice problem: how to live further. Perhaps, still there is an opportunity to recover feelings, but how to be if the relations reached a deadlock?
It is required to you
- - time;
- - self-control.
Instruction
1. The main rule in this case is not to panic and not to make sharp decisions. Weigh all pros and cons and only then begin a serious conversation (if you really want it).
2. First, try to take for granted the fact that anyway and, as they say, at any deal life goes on. It is not important that you solve: to run up or continue the relations. Assure yourself that new day is a new life therefore do not cry on lost, and, on the contrary, open yourself to the world around. It is quite possible that the happiest time waits for you ahead.
3. As a rule, all of a sudden the relations do not reach a deadlock. Try to get to the bottom of a key part of the problem and, maybe, it will manage to be solved with small losses. If it seems to you that feelings died away (psychologists note such critical period at couples which lived with each other 1.5, 3 and 7 years and it is absolutely normal), try to live for some time separately from each other (certainly, by agreement). At first you will like freedom, but in two weeks – month to you will already be something (more precisely, someone) not to be enough …
4. Did you after all decide to leave? Try to keep the friendly relations, some time ago this person was close to you. Who, except it, will be able to understand you best of all, to give a practical advice, to help out or just to listen? Therefore you should not leave enemies. The round earth, and, maybe, that you each other are useful still more than once.
5. Perhaps, your relations reached a deadlock because of a routine. Try to diversify the life, having organized a joint travel, having been engaged in common cause, etc. Having appeared with each other in non-standard for both situations you will have new feelings, look at each other with other eyes and, maybe, you will understand as far as the person who will be nearby is important for you.