Quite often men take leaving of the wife hard, but at the same time do not dare to complain to anybody and to tell about the grief. Seeking to show that men never cry and with firmness transfer strokes of bad luck, some thrown husbands become reserved, begin to drink, lose interest in life. But it is possible to avoid moral degradation and infinite sufferings after the divorce. It is only necessary to know how to make it.
Instruction
1. Think why your wife left you. Some men are inclined to consider that the lover is guilty of such situations. Actually there is a set of the reasons which lead to a divorce: male alcoholism, a regular beating, humiliation, unwillingness to have children and even inattention of the husband, indifference, cooling of feelings. Perhaps, you will be able to convince the wife to return, having removed the cause of its leaving.
2. You do not go to hard drinking and in general try to do without flooding burning with alcohol. Do not give in on provocation of friends when they begin to convince you of the men's company to drink though a little, assuring that from it it will become much easier. Friends will return to the families, and here you will remain alone with alcohol. Show firmness, get it together.
3. Find new occupations and hobbies which will help you to be released from painful memories. Pay more attention to the work, visit theaters, do swimming, you go to gym, go for a while to fishing in the summer or on hunting, in the winter go skiing or a snowboard. Look for what is interesting to you. Who knows, maybe, so you will be able to improve the life considerably.
4. If you feel that you do not cope with pain, go to the psychoanalyst. Believe, in it there is nothing shameful or humiliating for your men's advantage. Just to understand the feelings and to manage to begin new life, you need the help of the professional. It is especially important to make it in case you feel uncontrollable attacks of anger, you want to revenge the wife or her new man.
5. Do not try to fight fire with fire, meeting several mistresses at once. It is very difficult to begin the serious relations right after painful parting, and attempt to prove to itself and people around that you the attractive man also can subdue any woman, will hardly lead to something good.