The family relations sometimes glitch, even during the most, apparently, propitious moments of life. Inadvertently the thrown phrase or a captious look can lay the foundation for the small crack capable to break off the union of the people who are once loving each other.
Why families break up
In many cases the innuendo in the relations, unwillingness to consider a position of the beloved and to rise on his place is the cause of conflict. Somewhere there can even be a personal egoism. Often because of all these and other reasons families break up.
It is considered to be that men leave more often family as they in poligamna bolsheystepen. But it not always so. Recently in statistics of marriage stains the abandoning the family of the woman who tries to keep the relations in the beginning is marked out, but having felt that nothing changes, just packs things, takes away children and leaves the house.
From a sad gap to light tomorrow
So, the wife left. Behind a quarrel, scandals, misunderstanding, neglect. When the beloved leaves, men perceive it as heavy blow. Rage, are angry, are indignant. And at such moment the husband has to focus not on the fact of the leaving, and to try to comprehend an act, to find out the reasons of this circumstance. Because the woman by the nature is patriarchally tied to an opposite sex. And to force it to make such act, rather strong reasons are necessary. First of all the man should find out for himself whether he wants to return the beloved and further to build with it the harmonious relations in family. Depends on it what conclusions he will draw from the created situation. It is impossible to be depressed, fill in melancholy with hard alcoholic drinks at all or to have a ball. Only the analysis of the last acts can bring benefit in creation of future relations. Can play a positive role of her girlfriend in return of the wife. It is worth asking for the help them, having shared desire to revive the family relations. Sometimes and parents will be able to adjust what their children could not hold. It is not necessary to become isolated to the man in the melancholy and loneliness. Perhaps, there came the turning point in the relations, and it is worth taking a certain break. Happens often that having lived some time separately, each of spouses understands that the friend will not be able to do without friend further. They try to grope a footpath which will connect them again. But you remember that even temporary leaving of the wife should not cover interests in life. It is also necessary to continue sports activities, to visit interesting places, to allocate time for meetings with friends. Sometimes the taken break happens the best adviser in any tangled relations.