Having fallen in love with two men at once, you risk to complicate considerably the life, especially if your elects compete with each other. It is necessary to show determination and to make a final choice.
Instruction
1. Think and try to decide with which of men you would like to start a family. Quite often the love turns out fleeting feeling which passes after a while therefore it is necessary to listen to gut feeling. Think over the one which of men is more reliable and will become the good husband, the father of your future children.
2. Define whom you are afraid to lose more. It is unlikely you equally strongly miss both men, are hardly frank with both equally. Most likely, one of them you always wait for someone especially strongly and are really happy when it is nearby.
3. Analyze the relations with both men. Think with which of them you quarrel less often who cares for you better. Try to be objective as under abundance of the heart the people often close eyes to apparent defects of beloved. If someone from men made strong scandals or raised against you a hand, surely consider it and make a choice for quieter and appeasable man.
4. Look how men look after you. Perhaps, you love both, but only one of them gives you flowers, organizes romantic appointments, pays pleasant compliments, and another only pretends that you are dear to it too. It is possible even to arrange – to charge a small competition to men some important issue and to look which of them will cope better.
5. Consider a housing and financial condition of men, their marital status. You should not throw the arms round like mad a neck to the married person, expecting that he will leave to you soon. At the same time the single man with an empty purse – also not the best decision. Try to reject feelings aside and to soberly think with which of them to you will live more simply and more interestingly for which of them you are ready to give everything that you have, and in exchange to receive life happy and full of love.