Pretty often families when madly loves one spouses meet, goes on all victims for the sake of the half, and the second only indulgently allows to love himself. How to be in such relations and whether there can be such one-way love?
Instruction
1. Perhaps, the greatest sincere suffering is inflicted by unrequited love. Inside everything is broken off for offense and bitterness. It would seem, all of you do for darling, and he only accepts your feelings as something quite natural.
2. For a start stop to wind yourself. If you are able to love is already great happiness. Your darling is nearby — what it is possible to dream of? All your thoughts of it, you try to make his life brighter, cozier, more beautiful. Care of it gives you joy, feeling of confidence. Let him do not love you yet, but he feels how you are necessary to it. He is grateful to you for support and attention to himself. Perhaps, over time the feeling of gratitude will develop into love and from its party.
3. You lived with darling not one year, you have general children. It would seem - normal family. But you are not abandoned by feeling of loneliness. You see that the husband moved away from you, is not so gentle with you as earlier, does not indulge you pleasant surprises and gifts. You do not hurry to panic concerning lack of feelings from its party. Perhaps, it has a difficult period at work now, and it directs all the efforts and efforts to improvement of office affairs. Can be it some problem with health about which he does not want to admit disturbs.
4. Help it to reveal. Talk to it frankly, but it is unostentatious. If he wants to admit the difficulties, then will make it. And over time he will be grateful that you gave him a helping hand.
5. If the reason absolutely in another - just he got used to you, you do not cause in him bright feelings, then it is necessary to change urgently. Look at yourself in a mirror: whether long ago you were in beauty shop? Make a new hairstyle, buy a stylish dress and invite the husband in restaurant or give romantic party by candlelight. Very often after such program of the man look absolutely in a new way at the wives. At you the new period of love can flash, be started a honeymoon over again. Only, having returned his love, try to support constantly now yourself in an ideal form and to periodically surprise darling in a new way.
6. If this way did not work, then consider everything seriously. How many families live without mutual love, but their marriage from it does not break up. Spouses together are in charge of housekeeping, raise children, support each other at a difficult moment. Maybe you will suit such option?