Often men explain the cooling to the spouse with the fact that the wife became more uninteresting. But if it happened as to the woman to become again interesting to own husband.
To look for common goals in marriage
Of course, it is necessary to find subjects for communication, conversations, to be able to keep up the conversation, it is important. But for long communication or marriage of it it is not enough. You surely need common goals and interest. Such as work, hobby, sport, giving, creativity, education of children and so on. The main thing that interest both was sincere, but not ostentatious.
To have the personal hobby
Many women try to accompany the man and to pretend as though the same is actually very interesting to it, as him. But long so cannot proceed. Sooner or later and most it will bother you, and you will not be able to pretend to be any more. It is impossible to become happy if you lead others life. To interest the husband, interesting herself should be, first of all. For the sake of the spouse it is not necessary to give up the favourite hobby at all. And if it is absent, then try to find after all something for yourself interesting.
You do not become its shadow
The woman who applies for the long relations has to be not servants or a beautiful toy. First of all she has to be the worthy partner, in hobbies, common causes and, of course, in love.
To be a progressive personality
Self-realization is a necessary maintenance of interest at the partner in marriage. Having lived together long time, people know each other very well and therefore lose mutual interest. Try to change more often. Be a person who constantly grows, it is unimportant as: professionally, creatively, socially.
To become a valuable prize
In order that the man admired you, you and need actually to represent something special. You watch yourself, dress tastefully, be modern. Very many women, having married and especially staying at home with the child, about it absolutely forget, and it is the first step of your husband losing to you interest. Try to look always so that any man wanted to be near you. And then your husband will be proud that he has such woman.