Not all women realize that they female and men's psychology differ. It becomes the reason of misunderstanding, offenses and quarrels. Often the woman shows the care by concern on each trifle and thousands of careful questions and phone calls. It seems to it that this manifestation of love, and she does not understand that the man perceives such behavior as desire of total control over his life. And it causes irritation in any. How to behave to become necessary to the man what is necessary for him from the beloved?
Instruction
1. Accept it it as is. It is not necessary to remind constantly him of its shortcomings and to try to change him by the forced methods. The wise woman will find ways to correct behavior or appearance of the man softly and absolutely imperceptibly for him - so that in himself he perceived all positive changes as result of self-improvement.
2. Express the gratitude. He has to know that its efforts do not vanish though you are grateful to him and appreciate his efforts.
3. Admire it. State approval, joyful surprise and delight concerning its acts and abilities. It is fine incentive to become even better for it. Consciousness that his talents are appreciated that it for you – the best, does the man stronger and instills in it confidence in the forces.
4. Become it the reliable back. In the outside world all of us face different troubles, dangers and treachery. That those relations in which it is not necessary to palter, dodge where will listen to you are more valuable and will approve. At the same time approval not always means that you completely agree with it. Approving, you recognize its acts and hope that they are caused by good intentions.
5. Show it the weakness. Even if you – the strong, self-assured woman, do not hesitate periodically to let know that you need his strong shoulder and support that there is what to you without it not to cope with. The real man needs to care for someone, it makes him stronger.
6. You love and appreciate it. Then you will be able to become for it that only for which it is possible to get a star from the sky. Remember that in many respects your relations depend on you. The clever and strong and successful man can be only with the wise woman.