When the girl falls in love, she dreams that the guy reciprocated to it. However quite often happens that the young man is polite with it, willingly communicates, but allocates with nothing it from other familiar girls. It is awkward to tell directly about the feelings, and all hints for some reason do not achieve the objective. To behave properly to the girl in such situation to be pleasant to the guy?
Instruction
1. First of all, be not upset, be not depressed and the more so do not turn the aspiration to be pleasant to the young man in the most true obsession. It will only do much harm to you.
2. Pay much attention to appearance. Even if you not the beauty, and your figure it is far from classical parameters 90-60-90, you can look very attractively. Pick up the hairstyle and a make-up which are the most suitable to your face type. You wear only such clothes which favourably emphasize advantages of your figure and as much as possible mask shortcomings. You monitor the speech, a bearing, gait, gestures. You have to make an impression of the attractive, clever, well-mannered girl. Be benevolent, smile more often.
3. In every possible way raise a self-assessment. If you are sure of yourself, of the appeal, it will be much easier for you to communicate with the young man and to be pleasant to him. Inspire in yourself: even if you will not please it, it is not the tragedy and not doomsday. Except it there is a great number of young people, and you for certain very much will be pleasant to someone from them. Such internal spirit will help you to behave quite at ease.
4. Think how you can be allocated against the background of other girls surrounding this guy. Inquire about him. Try to learn, than he is fond what its character, habits. So it will be much easier for you to find "common ground".
5. All the time remember that guys and girls have absolutely different psychology! Do not talk to him as with the girlfriend, it is a serious mistake. Provide to him to choose a subject for a conversation, listen carefully, showing that it is interesting to you. If this subject to you is absolutely uninteresting or unclear, try to transfer skillfully and delicately a conversation to something else.
6. If your efforts were crowned with success, the guy showed to you apparent interest, do not attempt upon its freedom at all. Do not demand that he paid only to you all the attention, spent with you all free time, be not whimsical and annoying.