For the young man very important that two of his closest women - mother and the girl - got on. Therefore it is necessary to make efforts and to be pleasant to the guy's mother that your relations were saddened by nothing.
Acquaintance to the guy's mother
In advance agree about date and the place to be prepared for a meeting. It is better to choose the day off and to meet in the neutral territory, for example, in cafe. So you will feel more surely, and the situation will be not such intense. But even if the meeting will take place in the apartment at the guy's parents, do not worry.
Learn from the guy about preferences and the interests of his mother. What flowers she loves what it is possible to talk about as it is better to behave. Your guy will help you to be adjusted on the necessary wave and to make a good impression.
Pick up clothes, proceeding not from fashion trends, and according to views of mother of the guy. If she is very conservative, choose the modest dress closing a decollete and knees. It is better to collect hair in a hairstyle and to make an imperceptible make-up. Present to mother a modest gift which will show your good attitude. If you are able to pick up a gift under her hobbies, using hints of the guy, she will be pleasantly surprised. Or it is possible to present standard gifts – a bouquet of flowers and/or box of chocolates. But even such gifts need to be presented carefully: learn from the young man whether his mother has allergy. During acquaintance do not forget about rules of decency. Friendly smile and greet. During the conversation try to talk very little, give the leading role to his mother. Answer questions and support a conversation. It is not necessary to agree blindly with her opinion, but also yaro you should not defend the. Observe a small distance with the young man. It is not necessary to kiss, embrace or tickle each other in the face of his parents. It is possible to hold a hand to show your attachment, but no more than that. If you met at them in the apartment, surely praise dishes. After the termination of a feast offer the help in cleaning. Do not insist too zealously if refused to you. Do not sit up too long, thank for reception and tell how it was pleasant to you to get acquainted with them.
At further meetings
After acquaintance your meetings will not stop and you, most likely, will meet frequently. Do not relax not to spoil the first positive impression. Be friendly, smile, always greet and learn about its affairs. Try to adhere to the same image what appeared before it for the first time. If you sharply change, she can be disappointed in you and for the rest of life hang up a label "hypocrite". You do not need it therefore gradually you pass to the true shape.