The person wants to love and be favourite. At someone it turns out at once: still they find in school to themselves couple and carry by love through all life. Others are trapped by series of failures on the way to personal happiness. About such girls like to shoot films where at the end the heroine meets the man who falls in love with her. But how to become successful in love to real girls?
Instruction
1. The appearance as your spirit for success is not so important. If you feel as the attractive girl, then men will treat you also. Of course, it is not an occasion to forget about personal care. Very few people will be pleasant to get acquainted at first sight the gray mouse which is scaredly looking at the young man who approached it.
2. Think whether you are ready psychologically to getting the strong, long relations? Many girls, subconsciously being afraid of it, choose to themselves men, the affair with whom will be short and will end with tears and the next confirmation that all men are not really good people. Perhaps, you should work with the psychologist who will find the reason of your fears, and together with whom you will be able to overcome them.
3. If in youth you were betrayed by darling, then the fear again to appear in a similar situation can accompany you all life. And you will unconsciously provoke your present man to make the same act. For example, if the schoolmate who was pleasant to you chose your neighbor in a school desk, at mature age you can already be jealous of the gentleman of the girlfriend, reproaching him with your suspicions. But, if you ten times ask the young man whether the truth that the girlfriend has harmonious legs, nine times he will answer that yours are pleasant to it much more, and on the tenth will really look narrowly. And you receive confirmation again that nobody can be trusted though created a similar situation.
4. If you want to leave this vicious circle, you should overcome yourself. Kind of you wanted to sound to the new boyfriend of suspicion concerning his fidelity and reliability, you remember that you the reasonable, adequate woman also hold a mouth on the lock.
5. Most often the last relations do not release because you did not finish them. Did not understand the reason for which you were thrown, did not manage to express the offense. Make it now. If you consider inappropriate to sort out the relations with the man who was pleasant to you ten years ago, write him the letter in which tell how he hurt you, and then tear it and throw out in a recycle bin. Or put opposite to yourself a plush toy and present that it - the guy who offended you, and at you at last is chance to settle scores.
6. Trust the intuition. If you met the attractive guy, but in the depth of consciousness the thought periodically emerges that not that is perhaps, to you it is not comfortable with it to be alone, or you are irritated by his tie and even if there are no reasons – think whether these relations are necessary to you. Let you be not confused that he is a perspective man with car and great job – not it will make you happy. If you trust in an inner voice, then will soon meet true love.