If the woman considers that time mother came, so the main decision to become already made. It was necessary only to resolve the doubts about suitable time and to consider that in principle can give confidence in readiness for such event as the child's birth.
Instruction
1. Consider also factors which should be considered from a position of common sense. First, consent of the alleged father of the child. Deception can lead to break in relations. The most terrible in such scenario – not lack of support of the partner in vital problems, and what the child can not have a good sample of how the man has to behave as there have to be trusting relationship of spouses. Besides, for each child it is natural to have two closest people. It is impossible to rob the little person, making the decision for it. And on the contrary, the general desire future mothers and fathers to have the child rallies couple as the common very important issue. So council (as consent) yes love not for nothing wish to couples at weddings. It is much easier for the woman when responsibility is divided for two.
2. Secondly, for confidence it is necessary not to doubt what her own professional knowledge and skills will be able to provide to it and the child at least for at least quite good life. And the same data of the partner are not so important because statistics of stains, single mothers and men's mortality forces the thinking woman to be anxious. If for confidence you lack education or experience, it is better to wait with the child's birth not to depend on vicissitudes of life.
3. Thirdly, for confidence the support of a near and far environment in this decision is necessary. And the more is good friends and girlfriends, the better. They can come to the rescue, for example - the girlfriend will sit with the child of times a week. And other girlfriend will sit in other day while mother goes to some professional courses in case of such need. Girlfriends with children, they – an invaluable source of councils and the strongest support group of the beginning mother will be especially useful.
4. Each woman has values and her own list of necessary conditions of confidence depends on them. The main thing is not to deceive itself, not to be afraid of the desires, not to hope on "perhaps". And then you successfully embody the Child project. Can even more, than two such projects. Then statements of the problem will become complicated. But unless meaning of life not in the consecutive solution of harder and harder tasks?