The woman, marrying, trusts and hopes that for the husband she will be the best wife, favourite and desired. However gloomy statistics of stains convincingly demonstrates what so happens not always. How should the wife that the spouse for a second did not doubt that he it the best, and never regretted about the decision to connect with it life behave?
Instruction
1. Remember that even quiet, peaceful men do not suffer when women try to order them. Therefore from the very beginning take for the strict rule: not to resort to command tone, notations, especially to such female "weapon" as reproaches and scandals. Even if you are absolutely sure of the correctness, try to convince the spouse arguments, politely and quietly. And it is even better – suggest him an idea that he wants to arrive exactly as you offer.
2. Respect personal space of the husband. He is only not obliged to give each free minute to you. The husband has the right to be alone or meet friends, or to visit the relatives. If his hobbies, a hobby, seem to you strange, unclear, try to reconcile to it. Certainly, everything is good moderately and if hobbies of the husband cause essential damage to the family budget, you have full authority to express displeasure. But try to refrain from accusatory public prosecutor's tone.
3. Never criticize at the husband of his parents, especially mother even if you have for this purpose good reasons. Yes, the eternal problem "the daughter-in-law – the mother-in-law" can cause you the mass of inconveniences. But to your spouse already very hard psychologically because the most women close to it quarrel. Do not aggravate this gloomy situation.
4. You will hardly manage to avoid completely jealousy, but try that it did not take the excessive forms. Do not demand from the husband of nearly constant report: where was that did whom met. Remember that the jealousy in something is similar to spicy spices: in small quantities they improve and enrich taste of a dish, but if to shift them – the dish will be inedible. Do not allow jealousy to threaten your marriage.
5. You do not stint kind words, praises, especially if the husband works hard to provide family, tries to help you about the house or in child care. Too it is not necessary to flatter, of course, but do not forget a saying "A kind word and it is pleasant to a cat".
6. Always you watch yourself to be attractive, well-groomed. It is hard, especially when in family there are small children, but it is absolutely necessary.